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The Johannesburg High Court has denied a man’s second bid to silence a couple accusing him online of paying their daughter for sex and enabling her drug use.
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Judge Stuart Wilson ruled that the factual disputes surrounding the allegations could only be resolved through a full trial, not through court papers.
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The case raises complex issues about defamation, social media expression, and the protection of vulnerable individuals, with the daughter not represented in the proceedings.
A man identified only as MMS has once again failed in his legal efforts to stop a couple from publicly accusing him of paying their daughter for sex and funding her drug addiction.
According to IOL, the Gauteng High Court in Johannesburg dismissed his application for leave to appeal an earlier ruling that denied his request for a gag order.
The dispute stems from social media posts made by the daughter’s parents, identified in court as HK and VG, alleging that MMS, under the guise of mentorship, exploited their daughter, who is battling a serious and incurable form of cancer. They claim MMS’s financial support enabled their daughter’s substance abuse, prompting them to go public in an attempt to sever the relationship between their daughter and MMS.
“We published the allegations to induce MMS to break off his relationship with our daughter,” the couple stated in their court submissions. They insisted that their actions, although controversial, were taken out of desperation to protect their daughter.
MMS argued that the couple’s allegations were defamatory and constituted online harassment. He claimed he was simply a mentor trying to support a young woman facing life challenges, including terminal illness. Earlier this year, he sought an interim interdict to silence the parents, which was refused by Judge Stuart Wilson.
In his February ruling, Judge Wilson acknowledged that the statements made against MMS “on the face of it” appeared defamatory. However, he concluded that the court could not confirm a final interdict without a trial, given the serious factual disputes in the case.
“It is impossible, on the court papers alone, to determine who is telling the truth,” Wilson said. He reiterated this position in denying MMS’s attempt to appeal the decision, stating that another judge reviewing the matter on paper would face the same limitations.
“The disputes on the papers precluded me from making a final decision,” Wilson said, adding that the appropriate legal avenue for MMS would be to pursue a trial action, where witnesses could testify and be cross-examined.
The judge emphasized that while the posts may have harmed MMS’s reputation, they may also reflect a deeper truth, or at least a credible belief on the part of the parents. “It could be that the parents are publishing true facts about a man who paid their daughter for sex in a manner that funded her drug habit,” he noted.
Judge Wilson left the door open for MMS to pursue the matter through a full trial but confirmed that no urgent or interlocutory relief could be granted in light of unresolved factual conflicts.
Public interest at the heart of controversial Case
The case has ignited broader discussions around the limits of free expression on social media, especially when serious allegations are involved.
Legal experts say the court’s ruling reflects a careful balance between protecting reputations and preserving the right to speak out in matters of genuine concern.
“This judgment highlights how courts must weigh reputational harm against the public interest,” said legal analyst Nomsa Mthembu. “If what the parents allege is true, the public has a right to know. But if it’s false, the accused party is entitled to a remedy—just not without a full trial.”
The dispute also touches on ethical concerns around mentorship, consent, and the exploitation of vulnerable individuals for sex, especially those facing life-threatening illnesses. The daughter at the center of the controversy was not a party to the case, and her perspective remains unknown.
MMS now faces the decision of whether to escalate the matter to trial, which could expose all parties to further scrutiny and legal costs. Until then, the posts remain in public view, and the legal debate over truth, defamation, and dignity continues.
